The gigantic holiday baking post!

Wow, can a pregnant woman think of excuses to bake yummy goodies! I have baked sooo much in the last couple of months. Here is a run-down of what I did and where I got the recipes.

First, in early November I had a craving for lemon bars. I had always wondered whether I could make a dairy- and egg-free lemon bar that tasted like the real thing, and I found a great recipe that allowed me to do that. Unfortunately, the pic I took (below) is not very good, but trust me - in person, the bars look practically identical to the lemon bars with which you are familiar.

Here is the recipe (which I got from here and altered just slightly):

Time-Warp Lemon Squares
Ingredients:
Crust:
1 cup all-purpose flour
5 tablespoons margarine (I used Earth Balance)
1/4 cup granulated sugar
1 1/2 tablespoons orange juice

Filling:
3 egg equivalents, prepared (I used Ener-G Egg Replacer)
3/4 cup granulated sugar
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon real vanilla
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/8 teaspoon salt
juice of 2 large lemons
zest of 1 lemon

Topping:
powdered sugar for sifting on top

Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. For crust: In a bowl, combine crust ingredients. Put parchment paper in the bottom of an 8 X 8" or 9 X 9" pan. Press crust mixture into bottom of pan. Bake for 15 minutes.

2. For filling: While crust is baking, mix together the egg substitute (follow directions of your brand) in a bowl until foamy. Add the remainder of the filling ingredients and mix together. Pour over the crust, and bake 18-20 minutes. When pan is done baking, take it out of the oven and put it in the refrigerator for at least an hour to cool and set.

3. After it is set, take it out of the refrigerator and sift powdered sugar on top. Then cut into about 16 bars.

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Next was time for some Thanksgiving cookie fun. Ainsley's class was having a Thanksgiving feast at school and the cookies that would be served were not safe for her. So I made some cookies just for her, which were cuter than the ones the other kids ate! I got the idea from a Nick Jr. suggestion that showed how to make sugar-cookie turkey shapes by using your kids' hands.

For the sugar cookie dough, I used the Holiday Cut-Out Cookie recipe from Linda Coss's What's to Eat? (for link to book, see sidebar, "My Favorite Cookbooks") - this is my favorite sugar cookie recipe because the cookies hold together really well after baking. When using this recipe, I always add a little extra flour because I have found that if I don't, the cookies flatten out a little too much for my liking during the baking process. This time I only did a half-batch of the recipe because I was pressed for time and cut-out cookies can be very time-consuming!

Here is a pic:

After making the dough and rolling it out on a floured board, I made the turkey shapes by tracing my kids' hands in the dough using a butter knife. I drew a little triangle (for a beak) near their thumbs. After baking the cookies according to the recipe's directions (except I think I baked the cookies for only about 7 minutes instead of the longer period the recipe directs) and letting them cool, I began the decorating process. I should note here that I always bake cut-out cookies on parchment paper - then I never have to worry about them sticking to the cookie sheet.

I iced the cookies using Betty Crocker cookie icing (which is vegan and nut-free and dries hard to allow you to stack the cookies). I cut open a bag, poured the entire contents of the bag in a cup, and colored it orange with a couple of drops each of yellow and orange food coloring. I used a knife to spread the icing over each cookie; after I put the icing on each (and while the icing was still sticky), Ainsley stuck an eye on the turkey using Enjoy Life mini-chocolate chips and then added a gobbler using Welch's fruit snacks (strawberry or raspberry). Then she put multi-colored sprinkles on the turkey's tail-feathers. After the icing set a bit, I painted the beaks on using a little paintbrush and the rest of the icing in the cup, which I made a dark shade of pink using a couple of drops of red food coloring. Then I drew the feet on each turkey using chocolate Betty Crocker cookie icing (I used the nozzle that comes on each icing bag).

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After Thanksgiving came Ainsley's 6th birthday party. As you may know, I try to go above and beyond when it comes to Ainsley's birthday cake because she can't eat anyone else's birthday cake all year (except for her sister's). This year she requested a Star Wars cake (she is a tomboy!) so I gladly obliged. I made a marble cake (chocolate/vanilla swirl) using the marble cupcake recipe from Vegan Cupcakes Take Over the World (for link to book, see sidebar, "My Favorite Cookbooks"). I doubled the recipe to make a 14-inch round cake.

I made the cake the day before her party and let it sit on my counter to cool in the pan overnight. The next morning I turned the cake onto a silver cake board I bought at a party store and started to decorate. I used Pillsbury chocolate and vanilla frosting (I like making my own frosting on occasion, but I found last year that the homemade frosting is harder to spread on a birthday cake than the Pillsbury is so I opted for store-bought frosting this year). I frosted half the cake with the chocolate and half with the vanilla (I used a ruler wrapped in Press and Seal and sprayed with oil to help me make the center dividing line). Then I used an icing bag with a shell-type nozzle to decorate the sides in the opposite color icing. Finally, I mixed the remaining chocolate and vanilla frosting together to make light brown icing for the words, which I piped on with a different (smaller, less fancy) nozzle. I added Star Wars cake toppers (Darth Vader and Luke Skywalker) that my husband found on the internet, along with star candles Ainsley picked out at the grocery store.

I got many compliments on both the look and the taste of the cake, and best of all, Ainsley loved it!

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Then it was time to move on to Christmas baking. Every year I participate in a cookie exchange with some friends, and this year I made Choco-Cherry Spritz Cookies from Linda Coss's What Else Is to Eat? (for link to cookbook, see sidebar, "My Favorite Cookbooks"). I have made these before and the only problem I encountered was that they were crumbly after baking, so this time I added about 1 1/2 tablespoons of orange juice to the batter and that solved the crumbly problem.

Here is what they looked like - they were a big hit!

Note: You will need a cookie press to make these. I have this one. I used a design that had a hole in the middle, but covered the hole with a little bit of dough prior to baking (if I hadn't, the melted chocolate that I put on the cookies after baking would have fallen through the hole). I love making cookie-press cookies when I need a lot of them, because you can really pound out a bunch of cookies fast with a cookie press. I will say that it takes me a couple of minutes every time to re-learn how to use the press (basically, I have to practice holding it down on the cookie sheet, pulling the trigger for about 3 seconds, and then pulling up the press to make the right-sized cookie). But after I remember how to do it, the process goes really fast. Again, I bake these less than Linda's recipe calls for - I only left these in the oven for 5-6 minutes. Also, unlike with the sugar cookies, I do not use parchment paper here - these don't stick to ungreased cookie sheets.

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Then it was time for Ainsley's kindergarten Winter Party. At the beginning of the school year, I signed up to be one of the class party coordinators. Thus, for the Winter Party, I was in charge of all of the food. I brought fruit salad (which I bought pre-cut from Target) and Snowman cookies and asked another mom to bring a bag of plain Rold Gold pretzels. The kids loved the menu.

Here are the cookies we made at home:

To make them, I bought a snowman cookie cutter that I happened to spot at the grocery store and used Linda Coss's Holiday Cut-Out Cookie recipe again (adding extra flour to the dough as I did when I made the turkey cookies). Then Dave and I spread vanilla Betty Crocker cookie icing on each one. Dave and Ainsley were my assistant cookie decorators and they did an A+ job assisting me. After Dave or I would spread icing on a cookie, we'd hand it to Ainsley, who would add two Enjoy Life mini-chocolate chip eyes and a carrot-shaped nose made out of orange Betty Crocker fruit roll-ups (immediately before decorating the cookies I cut a fruit roll-up into several small triangles for the noses). Then Ainsley added three Fruit Loops to each cookie for the buttons.

After the vanilla icing set a bit, I took some chocolate Betty Crocker cookie icing and, using the nozzle that comes with it, drew a hat and a smile on each snowman. I left the cookies sitting on the counter overnight and by the morning, the icing was completely set and I was able to stack them and take them to school (note: it takes the icing at least 4 hours to become completely hard so don't plan on being able to stack the cookies right after decorating).

I actually made a double-batch of the cookie dough and, after we cut out the alotted number of snowman for baking, we made lots more cookies in various Christmas-y shapes (reindeer, stockings, Christmas trees, stars). After we decorated the snowmen, we drizzled some of the leftover icing (chocolate and vanilla) on these other cookies and then topped them with sprinkles and crushed candy canes. I put the cookies in little paper boxes I found at the Container Store and gave the boxes to each of the three kindergarten teachers at Ainsley's school because they all watch out for her with regard to her allergies. We also gave a box to the school nurse and to the counselor, who have been very instrumental in ensuring that things went well for Ainsley food-allergy-wise this year. (In addition, we gave a Target gift card to Ainsley's teacher, because she does the most with regard to ensuring Ainsley's safety and is also a wonderful teacher in general). Everyone really loved the cookie gifts and I was happy to show our appreciation for what they've been doing.

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Okay, finally, this week I've had a hankering for Monkey Bread. A long time ago, on a morning show, I saw Paula Deen make it using pre-made, refrigerated biscuit dough, and thought, that looks safe for Ainsley! So during this week's shopping trip to Kroger, I scanned the refrigerated biscuit-dough section and found that Kroger-brand buttermilk biscuits are safe. They only contain wheat and soy. So I bought a four-pack and our adventure began.

Here is a pic of the Monkey Bread right after it came out of the oven:

And here is a pic after I turned over the bundt pan onto a plate:

Paula Deen's Monkey Bread
(There are actually a few variations of this recipe on the internet, but the one below is what I used)

Ingredients:
1/2 cup sugar
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
30 canned refrigerator biscuits
1 stick (or 1/2 cup) margarine (I used Earth Balance)
1/2 cup brown sugar
Optional: 1 cup chopped walnuts, pecans, or almonds (we used almonds because it's the one nut Ainsley's not allergic to, but the bread would taste just as good without nuts); raisins would also work well

Directions:
Spray a bundt pan with oil (I used Baker's Joy spray that has flour in it) and set aside. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Combine sugar and cinnamon in a big bowl. Cut refrigerator biscuits in half and toss in cinnamon and sugar mixture. Melt the margarine in a saucepan and add brown sugar and bring to a boil; then add nuts. Line the bundt pan with biscuits and pour butter mixture over them.

Bake for 20-25 minutes. Let sit for 5 minutes and then, while still hot, turn over onto plate.

This is a GREAT recipe for your kids to help with! Ainsley practiced her scissor skills by cutting the biscuits in half, and my 2-year-old helped by using her hands to mix up the cut-up biscuits with the cinnamon-sugar mixture.

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Time will tell if this baby comes out weighing 12 pounds because of all of the baking I've been doing! I hope you will use some of these recipes and enjoy these goodies yourself. One last thing I want to mention - I am not a baking superstar. I am a regular mom who has had no special training (not even a cake-decorating class) and have learned by doing. The important thing to know is that YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS TOO! Just try some of these things! Your kids will love you for it and think you're the most amazing mom (or dad, or grandparent) in the world.

And last but not least, I want to wish each of you Happy Holidays and hope that your family is able to enjoy much of the great food this season has to offer despite your or your family member's food allergies!

Short update - a *good* dairy-free queso & great vegan blog!

I really need to write a full post, but when I do, it's going to be long - I've been baking away in the kitchen, making turkey-shaped sugar cookies for Thanksgiving, gingerbread people and a marble cake for Ainsley's sixth birthday, lemon bars (yes - I found a great egg-free recipe!), and (next week) sugar-cookie snowmen for Ainsley's winter party. But right now I wanted to let you know about two things my very knowledgeable vegan co-worker Annette told me about today - (1) a vegan queso (aka nacho cheese sauce) that actually tastes *good* and (2) a great blog with some to-die-for dessert recipes on it. The queso is called "Nacho Mom's" and the website is here. It has gotten great reviews, including on Amazon, where I bought two jars. I was excited to see that it will be stocked in DFW-area Whole Foods markets beginning in January.

The vegan blog is called Chef Chloe and is here. She won Cupcake Wars on Food Network with a vegan Raspberry Tiramisu cupcake. A lot of her desserts look pretty simple to make and include things like vegan whipped cream, which I have always wondered how to make.

Thanks for the tips, Annette! I cannot wait to get the vegan queso in the mail!

New restaurant in our line-up: Chipotle

I feel so liberated every time we try a new restaurant and Ainsley finds something good to eat and has no allergic reaction. We did it again last week when we ordered food for her at Chipotle. Most of you in major urban/suburban areas have probably heard of of it - it's a chain that makes made-to-order burritos and tacos. We have a ton in the DFW area because we're all crazy about Tex-Mex here.

My husband and I have been eating at Chipotle for years but for some reason (well, fear, clearly) I had not tried to determine whether Ainsley could eat anything there (we had taken her there but had always brought food from home or from a fast-food place for her). But my babysitter is braver than I am and last time she went there, she asked about the company's food-allergy friendliness. Low-and-behold, it is very sensitive to and accommodating of food allergies. It has a chart online (and also one you can request in the store) that shows what food components contain allergens. As you can see from the chart, the only thing a kid with nut, peanut, milk, egg, and sesame allergies can't have is the cheese and sour cream. And the workers make the food right in front of you so you can watch to make sure they don't accidentally include any allergens in what they're making for you.

So we took Ainsley there the other night and ordered a kid's "Taco Kit," which is a divided plate that comes with two tacos and some sides. On the plate, we asked for the shredded beef (barbacoa), pinto beans, rice, guacamole, and lettuce. Then she sat down and got to put the tacos together herself using the different components, which she thought was really fun.

I am thrilled to say that she thought the tacos were really yummy and had no allergic reaction.

Note: The only special accommodation to request when getting food at Chipotle is for the preparer to put on a new set of plastic gloves before preparing the food tray because the old gloves could have cheese residue on them.

Happy eating - I know where we'll be chowing down at least one night a week!

So we're having another one!

I am four months pregnant so I decided it was a good time to tell you that there will be another kid in the house come April. We are very excited - my husband and I have always wanted three kids. Ainsley will be six and Leighton will be three when the baby arrives. If Leighton will just get out of the "how many ways can I try to kill my toddler self" phase before then, I think we'll be alright. If she potty trains before then, that would be the cherry on top, but I'm not really expecting that to happen as she's not that interested yet and Ainsley was over three when she finally stopped with the diapers.

So you food-allergy minded people might be wondering what I'm doing this pregnancy to try to prevent this baby from having allergies. Well, nothing really. With Leighton, I avoided the foods that are likely to cause life-long allergies (fish, shellfish, peanuts, tree nuts). But the research on avoiding allergens while pregnant/nursing is very mixed and Leighton didn't turn out allergic to that stuff or to the allergens that I continued to eat (eggs, milk, wheat, soy) so I don't really think my avoiding those foods made a difference. So this time I'm eating like a normal person, although I don't eat a lot of the life-long allergens anyway (I don't care that much for fish and of course I'm not around a lot of peanuts/tree nuts) so I doubt the baby's getting much exposure to those foods.

Another question you might have is why on earth would my husband and I want another child when (a) taking care of one food-allergic child is so time consuming/expensive and (b) the new baby might also have food allergies, meaning double the trouble. I can understand this viewpoint and have heard at least one other food-allergy mom say her child's allergy was part of the reason she decided not to have a third baby (the allergic child was her second). But my strategy with food allergies has been that it is not going to limit Ainsley or our family. That means we will do everything we can to make sure Ainsley gets a normal childhood (goes to a regular school, goes on YMCA Adventure Princess campouts with her dad, etc.) and that we also don't let food allergies determine our family size. Sure, a third child will mean more work - on top of the special things I have to do to keep Ainsley safe - but somehow we've made our current situation work, and work well. I have never for a minute regretted having Leighton, and Ainsley adores her too, and I know it will be the same with the next baby ... even if this one has food allergies.

Of course, we will be very disappointed if the baby has food allergies - undeniably, life is easier when a kid doesn't have them. But if that happens, life really won't be that much different or harder UNLESS the baby is allergic to wheat and soy, the two things Ainsley eats the most. I just have to hope for the best, and keep reminding myself that siblings of food-allergic children have only a slightly increased risk of having allergies (10% greater risk than other kids). The likelihood is that the baby won't have allergies, and if he/she does, I would think they're likely to be to the foods to which Ainsley's allergic. If that's the case, we're well-equipped to handle them.

And one day there will be a cure, and all of my children will be able to eat whatever they want, and none of this food-allergy talk and worry will matter anymore :).

First elementary school fundraiser: selling cookie dough that contains nearly all of Ainsley's allergens

Our school didn't waste much time in rolling out the first fundraiser of the year: selling preportioned trays of cookie dough. Surprisingly, Ainsley was ecstatic about the idea of selling something to benefit her school and couldn't stop talking about it or asking me when we could go out and sell some to our neighbors. She even told me, "Mommy, it's okay if you buy some even though I can't eat it - I won't be upset."

So far she's sweet-talked my mother into buying some even though my mother never eats cookies except when she makes them for her granddaughters (my two girls), and thus has no use for cookie dough that Ainsley can't have. She also got our babysitter to buy a few packs. Despite her pleading, I am not going to buy any - I just can't imagine having cookie dough around that she can't have.

I am very happy she's taking this so well and is excited about it rather than sad she can't have the dough. This will make it easier when we have to sell girl scout cookies in a few years, I guess.

We have had the first allergic reaction of the school year ... and it didn't happen at school

I can't believe we had a serious allergic reaction within the first two weeks of school, after having avoided one for the past year. What is even more unbelievable is that it did not happen at school - it happened when I was with Ainsley ... at a birthday party.

As I've explained before, I hate taking Ainsley to birthday parties. It is a hassle for me, as (on top of getting the birthday kid a present) I have to pack a cupcake and something else for Ainsley to eat, depending on what food will be at the party. But when Ainsley started kindergarten I decided to take her to more parties so she could socialize with her classmates, with whom she'll be going to school for the next several years. The first birthday party of the school year happened two weeks after the start of school. It was for a sweet little girl whom Ainsley hardly knew, at a barnyard close to our house. The barnyard was really a petting zoo. Attached to the petting zoo was a party room where the cake and other food was to be served.

As soon as we arrived, Ainsley started jumping in a bounce house that was by the petting zoo. After she tired of that, she wandered over to the petting zoo and began petting the bunnies, goats, and miniature horses. She did that for about 10 minutes and then went back to the jump house (after I put sanitizer on her hands).

A few minutes later, Ainsley started crying in the bounce house because she'd landed wrong on her ankle. When she climbed out so I could look at the ankle, I immediately noticed lots of raised hives on her forehead. They were all near the same location so the result was that most of the center of her face looked horribly red and swelled. I instantly forgot about the ankle and got into allergy-parent mode. I knew right away what had happened - the animal food must have had nuts in it, and she must have gotten residue on her hands from petting the animals and then spread it to her face.

I took her as fast as I could to the bathroom, where I gave her two teaspoons of Benadryl and began washing off every part of her exposed skin. I then washed off my arms, legs, and face and did the same for my 2-yr-old, who was with us. I was so relieved that Ainsley was exhibiting no internal symptoms. The hives on her face looked nasty, but at least she didn't need the Epi-Pen.

As soon as I washed all of us off, I explained to Ainsley that we had to leave the party because she couldn't be around the residue anymore. She was so upset - she started crying hysterically, because she wanted to stay. This is one of those times when I kept saying over and over to myself, "Food allergies really suck." What a cruel condition to have, that keeps your kid from enjoying or even staying at a birthday party.

I walked back to the party quickly to thank the host for inviting us and to explain why we had to leave. Then we hurried out of there and went home, where I had all of us immediately strip down and shower. I then threw all of our clothes into the wash and hosed off our shoes. It's funny how contaminated I felt at that moment - like I had rolled around in toxic waste. What a strange life we lead.

Clearly, I re-learned my lesson about birthday parties. We'll certainly never go to another one at that barnyard, and I will be even more careful around petting zoos (we'd never had a problem at one before, but I knew it was possible). And next time we get invited to a birthday party, we'll go if it's for a good friend of Ainsley's; otherwise, we'll just stay home.

Ainsley about 20 minutes after she got the Benadryl and was washed off. It actually looked worse before that.

Allergy letter to parents of other kids in Ainsley's class

Some of you wanted to know the wording of the letter the school sent to the parents of the other kids in Ainsley's kindergarten class to inform them of her allergies. I am retyping it below. It's a standard letter the school district has for food allergies. On the back, the letter has a list of foods that are safe for Ainsley so that parents can send those foods to school for snack time (a different child is assigned to bring snack for the entire class each day). Ainsley doesn't eat the snack that's brought - she eats her own snack (she picks from a box we sent that the teacher keeps in the classroom) - but we still wanted kids to bring only snacks that were safe for Ainsley since they eat snack in the classroom.

The letter (front side):

Dear Parents:

A student in your child's kindergarten class this year has a severe food allergy to peanuts, all tree nuts (cashews, pecans, walnuts, pistachios), sesame seeds, eggs, and milk. We are distributing this letter to the parents to help you understand this situation and to help foster a safe and worry-free year for this student and his/her parents.

This student's allergy can be life-threatening and the student carries an Epi-Pen at all times. We need your help in maintaining a nut-free, egg-free, and milk-free environment in the classroom and ask that any classroom snacks or treats that you send be nut-free, egg-free, and milk-free. The allergy can be triggered not only by directly eating or coming into contact with the above but also by exposure to foods that contain any peanut/nut traces, oils, flours, or food that is processed in a plant with peanuts, nuts, eggs, and milk or sesame seeds. For this reason, most pre-made cookies, prepared cookie dough, and cookie mixes are off limits. Also, many bakeries use nut products, flavorings, or oils in their facilities or products. if you are sending in any type of classroom treats, please notify the teacher in advance so that arrangements can be made to ensure the allergic student has a safe snack or treat.

We want you and your child to understand that the student's allergy can be triggered even by ingesting or exposure to very small amounts of the above allergens. I will talk with the students in the classroom to discuss ways they can help keep the classroom safe, such as always washing hands after lunch or snacks, not bringing snacks with these allergens, etc.

The school realizes that helping us to maintain a nut-free, egg-free, and milk-free classroom takes a certain amount of effort and diligence on your part, and we thank you in advance for your cooperation in helping us maintain a safe, healthy environment for all of our students. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me at the school.

Sincerely,

[The school nurse]

Back side:

This is a list of recommended snacks that are free of milk, eggs, peanuts, tree nuts, and sesame seeds. The list below is not exhaustive and there may be more options. Please note that it is important to read the label as manufacturers are required to list the eight major potential allergens in bold type in or after the ingredients list.

Fresh Snacks
Fresh fruit
Raisins – plain only (not covered in anything else, like yogurt or chocolate)

Prepared Snacks
Bagels – Thomas brand only (original, cinnamon/brown sugar, blueberry, & whole wheat
flavors only)
Ritz Crackers (Nabisco) -- Original, Whole Wheat, Honey Butter, Hint of Salt, or
Roasted Vegetable flavors only (no Ritz Bits please – Ainsley is allergic to all types of them)
Ritz Muchables Pretzel Thins (Nabisco) – buttery flavor only
Wheat Thins (Nabisco) – original flavor only
Triscuits (Nabisco) – original flavor or reduced fat original flavor only
Triscuits Thin Crisps (Nabisco) – original flavor only
Teddy Grahams (Nabisco) – honey, cinnamon, chocolate chip, and chocolate flavors only
Honey Maid Graham Crackers (Nabisco) – original, honey, or cinnamon flavors only
Saltines (Nabisco) – plain or multigrain flavors only
Premium Soup & Oyster Crackers (Nabisco) – original flavor only
Keebler Original Club Crackers – original or multigrain flavors only
Keebler Town House Crackers – original flavor only
Keebler Grahams Bug Bites
Keebler Scooby Doo Graham Cracker Sticks – cinnamon or honey flavors only
Lorna Doone Shortbread Cookies (Nabisco)
Barnum’s Animals Crackers (Nabisco)
Ginger Snaps (Nabisco)
Rold Gold Pretzels (including thins, sticks, tiny twists) – plain flavor only
Rold Gold Braided Twists – honey wheat flavor only
Quaker Quakes Rice Snacks -- apple cinnamon flavor only
Good Health Natural Foods Veggie Sticks / Veggie Chips
Pirate’s Booty – veggie flavor only (not the kind coated in cheese)
Snapea Crisps (by Calbee Snack Salad) – plain flavor only
Sun Chips – original flavor only
Cheerios – plain and multigrain flavors only
Frosted Mini Wheats (Kelloggs) – original flavor only
Oreo Cookies – original kind only
Stacy’s Pita Chips – plain or cinnamon sugar flavored only

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I would love to say that all of the parents have diligently paid attention to this snack list and sent only safe snacks, but in reality I think some of them didn't read the letter at all and I know that at least a few have sent things like string cheese that are clearly unsafe. There is really nothing I can do about that as this is all about voluntary compliance. I do think that the kindergarten teacher doesn't serve certain things if they are brought, like peanut butter crackers, because she knows how much we fear those foods in particular (she has a few back-up snacks in her classroom).

I have already had to send a reminder/clarification email to the class parents because at Meet the Teacher night Ainsley's teacher mentioned that she had a child with a peanut allergy in her class and didn't mention Ainsley's other allergies. Some of the later questions from parents made clear that they thought Ainsley had only a peanut allergy. My follow-up email is below:

Hi fellow class parents,

For those of you who attended Meet the Teacher last night, I wanted to clarify that my daughter, Ainsley, is severely allergic not only to peanuts, but also to tree nuts (such as cashews, walnuts, etc.), dairy, eggs, and sesame seeds. That is why the letter the school nurse sent home about Ainsley listed all of those items as allergens, and that is why the suggested snack list on the back of that letter listed only foods that do not contain any of those allergens (if any of you did not see the suggested snack list on the back of that letter and no longer have the letter handy, I'd be more than happy to send a copy of the list to you if you let me know). We feel it is important for the snacks the other kids eat not to contain any of her allergens because it is so easy for the residue from those snacks to get on everything in the classroom since it will be on all the children's hands and they often eat the snacks in class.

It is true, however, that at lunch Ainsley can sit by other kids who are eating dairy, eggs, and sesame - she just can't sit by kids eating things like peanut butter & jelly because those sandwiches can be messy and the peanut butter (or other tree nut butter) might get onto her eating surface. Thus, the teacher checks the other kids' lunches and puts kids who do not have peanuts/peanut butter or tree nuts/tree-nut butter in their lunch around Ainsley.

As for birthday celebrations and parties, we definitely don't mind if you send treats that contain dairy and eggs as this wouldn't be an everyday thing like snacks (and it is so hard to find tasty treats that don't contain dairy & eggs). We would, however, appreciate it if you would avoid sending treats with peanuts/tree nuts in them as we would like to keep peanut/tree-nut residue from the classroom because it as particularly potent in terms of setting off an allergic reaction. Ainsley will have her own separate treat on those days so do not worry about her being left out!

Thanks so much for your understanding, and please don't hesitate to contact me with any questions.